| Location | Walsall |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 3/2007 |
| Date of Death | 3/2007 |
| Visitors | 1,882 since 20/06/2008 |
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Martin Anthany Joesbury
Stillborn-March 26th 2007
0 months
In mommy's belly
He now has a little sister Tyla Joesbury
His causes of death was plasenta abrubtion
He was nick-named Mumble as the little penguin off 'Happy Feet'
He loved to tap dance on his mommy's belly.
He was born at 24 weeks
His weight was 1lb 06oz
His hieght was 31cms
He meant the world to me and even now I have a daughter I will never love him any less.
Being 15 when I found out that I was going to be a mommy was the hardest thing I had, had to come to terms with. But I decided that to give up all my plans to give life to this little baby growing in my belly. It was hard going to school being pregnant but I kept my head held high was not going to be ashamed of my baby. Going to my first scan was wonderful it was the most magical thing I have ever seen. At around 17 weeks I started to feel a few flutters in my tummy, not long after he was tap dancing across my belly.Soon after my second scan came along and finding out that I was having a little baby boy was wonderful as I wanted a little boy for any other children I had to look up to. Everything became so real when my baby Mumble was Mumble the boy.
Then one day four weeks after my second scan my waters broke I was so scared. When I got to hospital it was about 12.25. I had drips sticking out of every where, doctors going in. Thet were looking for his heart beat and they believed that they could not find it as the one they found was only 80 beats not 120 beats(I think) as it should be.
So they scanned me and but It was his heart beat that they found. They scanned me again about 3.00 but this time there was no heart beat. I was then told that I would have to give birth natuarly and as he was not ready to be done he was breech. So it was not going to be easy.
Giving birth knowing that I was not taking my little boy home was the hardest thing that I have ever done. Finally at 5.26 My little boy was born angel. As he was placed into my arms it was heartbroken as his WHOLE tiny body was bruised apart from around his mouth and his neck had been broken durning the birth but he was still perfect to me.
I got to spend 2 nights and 3 days with my son and Martin(his dad) in the hospital after he died. We held a funeral for him and martin carried him from the church to his grave which broke my heart knowing that it would be the last kind of phisical contact we would get with him.
Everyone who came wrote a little message to Dylan and we tied them on to ballons and then sent to our angel. Dylan was born at the same week in pragnancy as his dad was. They wieghed THE SAME. The only thing that was different was that Dylan was 3 inchs big than he dad.
We had the stone for his head stone imported from India so it would be different from all the other babies. When we finished doing his grave up it was the best feeling as I felt he was finally resting in peace.
Two weeks after losing Dylan I went back to school to finish my exams to make him proud of him mommy. I felt like I did as I got Grade C's in Maths and English. Three mouths after Dylan I found out I was pregnant again. I was so scared my whole pregnancy I did not go back to the same hospital. It was as long way to travel but it was worth it.
I feel like Dylan blessed my pregnancy as my little girl Tyla was born two weeks early on mothers day . Tyla was about 15 days old when Dylan turned 1 We all when up to his grave. I wrote a little message to Dylan off Tyla and attached it to a ballon and put it in her hand we all sent our ballons flying but she held her for ages and let it go on her own.
I will never let anyone forget my son and I will make sure Tyla knows about her big brother.
The stork who brought our Son to us
He must have got it wrong
He set out on his journey here
But turned and went back home
He discussed this with the Angels
Said “there must be some mistake”
“I need to get this baby there
Or surely hearts will break”
The Angels shook their heads at him
“So sorry but its true”
“God needs him here in Heaven and
There’s nothing we can do”
They told the stork “his life must end,
He mustn’t breathe at birth”
“God made it clear, he must come here
He’s far too good for Earth”
kelly potts
can't emagine all the pain u an mart have gone through. Felt so sad reading this. Prayers for dylan and all the other little angels xxxxxxxx
hello dylan well u lie in a place of rest an will never be 4gotton no matta wat peace an harmony an nufin but hapiness lies ahead love allways charlotte and louie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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I am sorry for your loss I really am. Your little Baby is with all the other little ones that have sadly had lo leave us .. I wish it were different for you all I really do.
Take care of yourself.
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thnx monique
hope your having fun on them clouds Dylan with Todd
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luv kelly ,baz & family xxxxxxxxxx
beautiful angel Dylan
Here is a teddy bear for you sweet angel as you can never have too many.
I hope you are playing happily with my daughter Livvy but try not to get up to too much mischief together.
send mummy and daddy lots of floaty kisses as i know thy miss you so much.
with love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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precious little boy
I just had to leave you a little message as your story really touched me, to have to go through this tragedy as such a tender age with such bravery. My thoughts are with you and your darling gorgeous little boy...RIP xxx
so sorry 4 ur loss xx
i also know what ur going threw
i lost my second son Todd at full term inside my tummy due to the chord being round his neck , was so hard to go through what we have been through
if you need to chat to sum 1 who knows what your going through drop me a line
thinking of you all
luv kelly xxxxxxxxxxxx
I know how you feel
I have lost two little ones to weeks apart i lost my little nephew he died in his mummys tummy at 15 weeks and then i lost my little girl at 17 weeks she was all so in my tummy the only thing that gets me through is my little boy so i am very sorry for your lose
so sorry for the loss of your son i lost my son at 5 weeks old hope they are playing safley in gods garden
hi im very sorry for the loss of your dylan i lost both my girls at 23 weeks, its still very early days for you i only know too well all the different stages of emotions ahead of you i wish you gentel days.
also thought id mention www.sandsforum.org (stillbirth and neonatal death society)
it has helped so many parents talk about there baby and always helps to talk to people who truly know how you feel.
my babys have got a gonetoosoon site it breaks my heart to see more babies on here its not fair my heart is totally with you
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